@JayHawkFanToo Man, I thought that passage in Beyond the Phog (in Gidden's own words) was very chilling. As J.R. told it, Self wouldnt allow any of his teammates to go see him, or have any contact. And if I recall correctly, there was no support given by KU for J.R. during his healing & recovery process. Most interestingly, throughout the book, which is exclusively first-person player quotes on various topics and about each other...occasionally Self is asked about such things, and the author put the responses or additional info in italics. The interviews took place over the summer before the book's release in 2011? Self directly responds (in 2011) to J.R.'s allegations with the statement "that is an outright lie." That is simply wow-type stuff. And not necessarily flattering to the KU program--the book spans 10 years, including 3-4 Roy years/players...I recall reading the book, thinking this 'definitely is not a homer book'. Riveting reading, as you are reading player's own recorded words. If anything, it simply affirms that Bill Self is an (effective) old-ball, disciplinarian type of coach. And Roy's players make it clear he was a totalitarian as well. Very demanding, was Roy, about his system requirements. And finally, I wish every Eric Chenoweth hater could read what Eric said about KU (still loves ku) and how Roy pulled him in the office after his promising soph year and bluntly told him the offense would be "going a different direction" (Pierce), but fans never understood why Eric's stats went down his upperclassman seasons. He feels it cost him NBA legitimacy. But he still flies a KU flag in front of his Calif. home to this day.
The only thing I can think about the JRGiddens scenario is 3 possibilities:
Here's my gut thoughts on the incident: He was an innocent, but high profile "target" (as any player is in a bar scene)...who got provoked into "reacting", and made the mistake of going outside, where events took a scary turn.
Scenario 1: JR tells Self what happens, maybe there is a scared-delay, Self thinks JR is guilty, and doesnt believe him, and everything thereafter is a result of Self not believing JR. I thought back then, and still do now, that Self new KU coach...chose to 'make an example' out of JR to simply cement his authority over the team (some Roy players remained), and this JR episode unwittingly provided the opportunity for Self to flex.
Scenario 2: Maybe Self believes JR, but still for publicity's sake, felt forced to make an example of JR...again, just to cement 'what kind of program' he was running at KU. JR was the 'fall guy' and Self stuck to his guns on it...and knew that he would have to til the end of time.
Scenario 3: Self came in thinking Giddens was a wild card &never liked him (at best) or a thug at worst...Then JR wouldnt play D, wouldnt dribble-drive as Self repeatedly asked him to...and there was always that "Walmart shoplifting incident" from Oklahoma when Giddens was still in highschool...maybe that never sat well with Self. Maybe thats the kind of character thing that is a major turnoff for Self, and 1 mistake and he'd be done, meaning JR was on a short leash in Self's head from the word 'go'.
So, what Im trying to say is, there was the personal private response from Self towards JRGiddens, then there was the public response (no doubt engineered for all the correct effects)...and neither is very flattering. JR hasnt changed his story, so I doubt Self included him in on the public harsh response. JR sounds like a forlorn lost puppy, and if he was telling the truth, maybe he has every right to feel that way. Most heart-wrenching is to hear 2011 JRGiddens say how much he loved KU, and still does. I just dont know what to think, other than I wish somehow JR never went to that stupid bar...
I thought for a while that maybe fellow Oklahoman Self would cut MickeyD Oklahoma kid JR some slack, but actually, maybe it caused the opposite effect (wouldnt want to show favortism?).
Very sad chapter. But this is Bill Self's program to run. After CJGile and JR...I thought Mario Little was toast after his little incident, but Self was willing to work with Mario...for which I'm grateful. Maybe Mario played it differently, going immediately to Self, maybe witnesses told a different story...and actually the situation (unfaithful girlfriend) was a totally different circumstance than JR's altercation? Or maybe Self felt guilty after JR's scenario and chose to be a tad bit more open minded with Mario's situation? Who knows!?
Enquiring minds want answers to this gossip!