We live in a different world today compared to the world in my youth and many of you in here.
I'm going to spell this out in generalities as I'm not saying all the kids are like this today... but I speak of the majority.
Read this segment from the post on Wilt and about his taste for cars going back to his days in college:
""I explained how cars have always been a hobby," he said in the article. "Back in my junior year at Overbrook [High School], in '53, I bought a '49 Olds for about $700 from what I'd saved…In '54, I bought a '51 Buick for $600 and my turn-in. In '56, I bought a '53 Olds for $900 and my turn-in. I saved the money from summer jobs. I got my present car last year, and I'm still making payments on it.""
This story is a typical one from my era. When I was about 8 yrs old I visited my local bank with my parents and they helped me start my first savings account. I mowed lawns, shoveled snow, trimmed bushes, cleaned out garages and did whatever jobs I could do to make money. I'd usually make about $2 per lawn, and a huge corner lawn might earn me $5 if I had to do extra work like rake up leaves. When I turned 16 I had $3500 saved in my "car fund" and I carefully bought the car I wanted (used) and then proceeded to rebuild it the way I wanted it. Custom rims, metallic paint... hot rod engine. I had the sweetest ride at school and I cleaned and polished that car almost every single day. $3500 was a small fortune back then.
Most of the kids today have never had jobs to save money. For some reason our society thinks it is wrong for kids under 18 to do any kind of work. That is pathetic.
We live in a world of "instant gratification." Instead of working on the side of their studies, kids today play computer games. Read it in here. Our players and recruits spend their extra time playing games. What a waste.
These kids have no concept of the real world. None whatsoever. And it isn't all their fault. They have enough talent to play at KU and so they get treated like Gods. Even Wilt didn't receive 1/100th of the attention our players receive today.
So how do you get these kids interested in reading and studying? How do you get them to value an education? Many of these kids come from neighborhoods where their peers didn't make it to college. What example is there for them to follow?
I feel really sorry for most kids today because they were not given the right direction to help put them on the right path.
There are no kids mowing lawns in my neighborhood.
I know there are millions of exceptions to what I say here. Again, it's just a generalization.
I know there is not enough money in this world that could ever compensate me in trade for my education. It is an achievement that I'm most proud of. Somewhere in my last move my entire trophy collection from playing ball for about 30 years "showed up missing." I didn't even realize it until I had my first son and thought it would be a good visual to encourage him in sports. Oh well. I guess I'll send him out to mow lawns in our neighborhood... after he finishes his studies!
The real prize in life isn't hitting the financial jackpot, especially early in life. The real prize is to live a full, rich life with a healthy dose of hard work, struggle and then the rewards coming eventually. And if you proceed in that lifestyle, you are likely to find a partner that is on the same path.
I think if I was a basketball recruiter my first assessment of a player's character would come from asking this question:
"Is this recruit playing for the love of the game or playing for the gold and fame at the end of the tunnel?"
I'm not saying it is wrong for these guys to pursue a well-paid career playing ball. But what drives them most?