Respect. That and remembering that we are all on the same side in the end. Those are the two things that strengthen a country. Those are really the only ideologies that matter. Not right. Not left. Not conservative or liberal or libertarian or red or blue or whatever other descriptions are out there.
Do I agree with our current president - not on many things. I want America to be great, but I also recognize that his idea of what is great doesn't line up with my idea of great. I don't want him to be an enormous failure, just like I didn't want the current governor of our great state to fail. I just fear that some of his policies are likely to end in disaster.
I am especially wary of what's going on now because the president has effectively de-legitimized any criticism of him. That's very dangerous because, no matter how good he is as president (and we all have our various opinions on that) the ability to criticize is foundational to a democratic society. Throwing away that disagreement as illegitimate undermines the principles on which democracy is built. That doesn't mean, of course, that President Trump will ruin the country. That's hyperbole. What it means is that it could erode some of that foundation, in the same way that blindly following a leader (any leader, whether it be a politician, or a coach, or a pastor, or anyone) erodes the healthy skepticism that leads to the best choices.
I'm a boss at work. I manage a small staff. I tell everyone when they are hired that they are always allowed to respectfully question the decision making, provided that they can provide a reason for their questions (I just don't like it doesn't count). Sometimes, based on that criticism, we change paths. Sometimes, we don't because on further review, that criticism isn't as big a worry as they may have thought. But each criticism helps ensure that we cover every angle and that we don't get a "herd" mentality right off a cliff. Sometimes it shows that my original idea wasn't the best one. That doesn't undermine my leadership. It enhances it because I have the confidence to lead to the best solution, not just my solution.
But that only works if there is a channel for respectful dissent.
The major problem in today's politics (both sides are to blame here) is that there is a lot of absolutism and villainization without any room for the type of respectful dissent and discourse that promotes problem solving. My way or the highway is no way to lead.