I am neither exhausted nor tired, and not sick of talking about it with people who are affected. Poor little white people, victimized by the consequences of ignoring it except when things go crazy.
My black neighbor's niece got pulled over last Friday for not having proper window tinting. She was near her son's elementary school to pick him up, so she pulled into the parking lot there. Yanked out of the car by the white cop in front of the kids, and (lightly) frisked. He gave her a ticket. She called her mother as she walked back to the car and said to her mom, "No, I don't know what the hell that was all about!"
The cop heard her, and arrested her for cursing on school property. The school principal and security officer tried to get the cop to back off because it wasn't even something the kids could hear. My neighbor is related to a police chief in a major city here, knows the Columbia police chief well, and has a state senator as a relative. After she and they started burning up the phones, the cop let her go about 6 pm.
If my neighbor wasn't "connected" the niece would have spent the weekend in jail.
And if I hadn't gone over to my neighbor's house on Sunday and said, "Hey, let's talk about what's been going on" I never would have known about it. Or had a chance to wonder how often that crap goes on.
Go ahead, pretend that we are able to be racially neutral. Just be aware that when someone is targeted because of race, the fact that you don't want to hear about the anger it causes doesn't make that anger--the product of 400 years of oppression, rape, and muder--go away.
As for your willingness to absolve HEM, you have done it for years. He attacks people all the time, and you desperately need to think his long-winded bullshit reveals an intellectual current worth crediting. You never call him out for abusive language, but you have done so with me and others.
If you think HEM is not a racist, you just aren't paying attention. A dialog with someone who spews the "blacks should be happy they were enslaved because Africans are worse off" line is repeating almost word for word what Robert E. Lee said 164 years ago, around the time he was breaking up his slaves' families through selling the parents separately and their children, too.
I am done with this discussion and pretty much this forum. Trying to talk to someone who thinks HEM is worth listening to is just too frustrating. While you try to listen, he will continue to spew his hatred and disdain. Enjoy.