wissox said:
@HighEliteMajor Privilege sounds like baloney until you look at it from a different perspective.
I used to be a pull yourself up by your bootstraps type of person. Then I got a big dose of the hurdles that young people who grow up in poverty have to overcome to pull themselves up by their bootstraps. Yes I am a product of privilege because I had a mom and dad who did a lot for me to nurture and love me and support me in whatever I wanted to do. They had the means to do so. That makes me privileged.
Now take away my father. Now I've lost one very good role model. I've lost a good provider. I've lost a man who taught me to be a man. Single moms, or single dads, obviously can make up for a lot of that but it's more difficult. Missing one parent, you're less privileged.
Now put yourself in a substandard school. You have no choice. Economics have you in that district where textbooks are 10 years old, and stadium lights explode during games, and metal gates are set up in hallways, and where schools go all year without a math teacher for 9th graders because they can't hire one. When you avoid going to a school like that you're privileged.
Go home from school and mom comes home from a long day of low wages and stops by the corner store to pick up some substandard prepackaged food without fresh veggies and fruits because you live in a grocery desert. The good stores are a long busride away. When you have good quality food to eat on a regular basis you're privileged.
When you walk through an airport and security doesn't whisk you away from the president you're walking with, that's privilege. Ask Condoleeza Rice about that one.
I could go on. Please understand what people are talking about when they say privilege. Goodness the opposite term has been in our lexicon for a century or more, 'underprivileged'. I'd guess you've called kids underprivileged at some point. Really no difference.
This is much nicer than what I was thinking yesterday. Good stuff.
Suffice to say it's much more difficult for some than others and there are definitely people that work hard their whole life and end up with very little to show for it.