@konkeyDong
You really missed my point by a country mile...
For starters, aren’t you the one making the argument for political correctness? You’re saying, ‘I find a word offensive, therefore so must everyone else, and they should modify their behavior to comport to my sensibilities!’ That right there is the Webster’s definition of PC policing. Not every black person has to agree to the terms of its usage in order for it to be okay that a lot of them do. And for those that choose to, I think they’d argue to you that the whole point is to trivialize the word and rob it of it’s power.
My point was that it is "politically incorrect" to criticize any one that is black lest you be labeled racist.. Whether I find the word offensive or not is not the point, we keep getting hammered with the message that using the "N: word is a serious offense yet the same people that tell us that keep using the word with the caveat that... it is OK if we call ourselves that but don't you dare call us that name and if you do we will call you racist...that is the political correctness I was referring to,
Secondly, why do you care about the double standard? Do you want to be able to say the N word? What is it that you think is lost or gained by one group having exclusive rights to a word that is about them? You might as well be complaining that you can’t hit a woman.
Really, that is the comparison you make? I have no desire to call anyone of any race a derogatory term since it goes against my own moral principles in the same way that hitting a woman does. My point is that you cannot "demand" respect from others when you don't respect yourself. A better comparison would be a woman saying...you cannot hit me because I am a woman but I am free to hit any woman I want. Both arguments are nonsensical, wouldn't you agree?
There has been a long standing social convention that members of a group, especially a group considered a minority, are allowed to use certain words and phrases or express ideas or tell jokes about the group that might be considered derogatory when uttered by outsiders. This extends to white people as well, or at least it used to when whites weren’t considered homogeneous.
...and that makes it right? Minorities have fought for a long time to overcome the prejudice and stereotypes and I don't know or any other minority where certain members thrive by demeaning their own race, and by the way, treat women of their own race even worse...and yet they are considered stars and idolized.
Anyway, I’m not trying to single you out here or silence. But I genuinely don’t understand your perspective on the matter. Again, you seem to want to rail against being PC, but what you’re demanding is political correctness. There’s no two ways about that. I’m guessing it has something to do with the fact that the term racist itself has become something akin to the N word to us.
If you don't understand my perspective then there is not much I can say. I am the least PC person you will meet unless you equate not having a double standard with political correctness.
Minorities want to talk about racial issues and their experiences vis a vis race with white people, but white people are so concerned with that extremely toxic label that, even knowing in their hearts that they harbor no hate for others, they don’t want to engage and chance that word sticking. If we’re ever going to get past it, I think it’s incumbent on both sides to change their behavior.
...and that is political correctness and the polar opposite of what my point was. By the way, you seem to assume that I am white...have you considered that maybe I am indeed a member of a minority?
I believe a healthy discussion is always good and hopefully we all learn something in the process...as long as we do it as Ron Burgundy would do and keep it classy...