@justanotherfan My opinion, but there is no way Grimes plays PG in the NBA. A reasonable comp is someone like Wayne Selden. Has someone seen him projected as a PG? Or a comp provided by some site suggesting he's a PG?
But your point is a very good one -- "If we want highly rated guys to come to KU and stay at KU, we have to consider how they are being used and if the development they are getting is helping them. It has to be mutually beneficial."
The key for KU is the balance. First, no kid (or his dad, mom, grandma, guardian, or whoever) is going to dictate what they do. Second, any determination on role has to square with the team concept, and team needs. Third, need a commitment from the player on flexibility should injuries and situations dictate. Fourth, focus on kids that are team players and have that mindset.
Nothing is perfect though. But avoiding the presumed OAD guys like Grimes solves much of that.
As @justanotherfan alluded to, the kids have every right to work the deal that is best for them. A critical and important thing we should all remember. That is their right, it's their lives.
But KU has every right to say no and should say no when appropriate -- Selby, Wiggins, Grimes, Cliff, Diallo, et. al. I stand here and hold to the exact opinion I had back when Wiggins arrived (this alleged transcendent talent) -- we'd have been better off, a better TEAM, without him. Not because of Wiggins, but because of Self. The only presumed OAD that was worth the effort was JJ. Because he was able to fit in.
Self is the problem for OADs here. He's not a nurturer of presumed OADs. But that's because he's demanding and insistent that his way is the best way. That's why we win. Self doesn't need them. I'd rather have Self, and no OADs, than some coach getting two and three a year.
Self and presumed OADs just don't mesh as a general rule. Why fight it?
I'm with you, @nuleafjhawk, I think Grimes, overall, would have benefitted more in the long run by committing to another year, or two. Improving, working, becoming a force and a leader.